You can help a child in need – Health and Wellness Nashville

With schools closed since March – and most summer activities and camps being canceled – many children are spending almost all day, every day at home. And not every kid has a safe home, causing a potentially dangerous situation for children and the whole family. Keep an eye out for abuse and neglect

Everyone is worried about something; contracting COVID-19, finances and bills, layoffs and furloughs, groceries, education concerns, among other issues. According to the American Psychology Association, research shows that increased stress levels among parents is often a major predictor of physical abuse and neglect of children. That’s not to mention the potential mental stress children are under, worrying about similar concerns of education, lack of communication with friends or food insecurity, if they rely on schools or camps for meals.

The decrease in calls to the Department of Children’s Health and child abuse hotlines, beginning in March, is worrisome. Most calls are made by teachers, coaches, counselors, or extended family members and friends. Without regular interactions, those adult figures aren’t able to see the tell-tale signs of potential abuse or neglect. Even video-chatting capabilities don’t show the whole picture. So, what can the average person do to help with this issue?

For those who do interact with the children, such as your students or your kids’ friends, opening up the lines of communication can shed some light on a potentially dangerous situation. According to the Child Welfare Monitor, asking a child to use one word to describe their day can open a bigger conversation about their home life. Regular check-ins help monitor behavior as well. Touch base with families you feel comfortable checking with, whether through phone calls or dropping off food or supplies, and looking around to see if anything is amiss.

As a parent or adult figure in a child’s life, you can help them feel secure and loved by remaining calm and consistent. Talking to your kids about what is happening, asking about their friends and classmates and their feelings can open up to bigger discussions about their COVID-19 worries. Keep yourself on a routine, exercise or practice self-care so you are a more reliable, thoughtful caregiver for your family. Anecdotally, teletherapy has become the norm in mental health, so getting emotional help has never been easier or more convenient.

If you do suspect child abuse or neglect is present in a home, it is your responsibility to report (anonymously if desired) by calling 1-877-237-0004.

Brittany Farrar is the regional director of Middle Tennessee programs and Tennessee Specialized Crisis Services for Youth Villages. Crisis services are still available 24/7 if your child needs support. Youth Villages is available and prepared to assist your family during the time. Call 855-CRISIS-1 or text CONNECT to 741741.